(via kari-shma)
Why do some people hold grudges? Why do some people get mad at others and not tell them why?
What does doing those things accomplish? I always tell people why I am mad at them. It’s healthy. It’s mature. How will someone fix their mistake (i.e. the reason you are mad at them) if you don’t tell them what you were mad at (i.e. tell them what mistake they made)? It helps everyone grow.